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Many of you have pets already, but if you don't, a pet can be a wonderful addition to your family. In fact, pets can have a surprisingly positive impact on a child's development. Whether it's a furry friend or a scaly one, a therapy pet or family pet, the benefits are truly invaluable.
A recent NY Times article, Exploring the Health Benefits of Pets, looked at the relationship between an 11 year old boy, Milo, with autism, and a service dog, Chad. Since joining their family, Chad has had a tremendous impact on Milo's behavior; the effect went far beyond what Milo's doctor and family had hoped for. "Within, I would say, a week, I noticed enormous changes," Ms. Vaccaro, his mom, said of Milo, whose autism impairs his ability to communicate and form social bonds. "More and more changes have happened over the months as their bond has grown. He's much calmer. He can concentrate for much longer periods of time. It's almost like a cloud has lifted."
According to the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (AACAP) some of the advantages of pet ownership for children include:
- Developing positive feelings about pets can contribute to a child's self-esteem and self-confidence.
- Taking care of a pet can help children develop social skills.
- Positive relationships with pets can aid in the development of trusting relationships with others.
- A good relationship with a pet can help in developing non-verbal communication, compassion, and empathy.
Pets can serve each of us in different ways, and for children especially, a pet can be just the quiet companion the child needs:
- They can be safe recipients of secrets and private thoughts--children often talk to their pets, like they do to their stuffed animals.
- They provide lessons about life; reproduction, birth, illnesses, accidents, death, and bereavement.
- They can help develop responsible behavior in the children who care for them.
- They provide a connection to nature.
- They can teach respect for other living things.
There are some additional benefits that may help to fulfill the physical and emotional needs of children:
- Physical activity
- Comforting contact
- Love, loyalty, and affection
- Experience with loss if a pet is lost or dies
Remember, it takes a responsible person to be a good pet owner, providing love, training, health care and nutrition, and an opportunity to exercise and play. Owning a pet is a privilege and a lifetime commitment. Every pet should be thought of as a cherished member of the family.
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